And They Lived Happily Ever After as Friends: What Can We Say About Non-Romantic Love?
Loves me, likes me, respects me: love has many faces, and perhaps it's the unassuming second line of that daisy rhyme that holds the key to lasting happiness.
By Olga Drenda
"The most important thing is to like each other" — this recipe for a successful life together can sometimes be heard from couples celebrating impressive anniversaries. Simple and practical, but — as it turns out — also intuitively philosophical. These seniors are expressing, in their own words, the same thought Friedrich Nietzsche once articulated.
Nietzsche Had a Recipe for a Good Relationship
The philosopher known in the popular imagination for his misogynistic aphorisms — with which every young misanthrope likes to show off — also wrote memorable lines in praise of genuine partnership between husband and wife. For this is precisely what his vision of friendship as a solid foundation for love amounts to: a relationship in which the partners don't bore each other and always have something to talk about.